EGO: A harassment style of hurt to others

 

The ego is the biggest enemy of man. Ego is not the trend of today, but this tendency in humans has been old for many years. Since time immemorial, many people have been arrogantly proud of their appearance, color, rule, and status, home, victory, etc. But this ego did not last long. The faster the speed of the ego, the quicker is the downfall of that person. Arrogance is when a person feels that there is no one better than him in this world. When he thinks of this, he will surely destroy himself. Because of which he is arrogant, he is not able to progress in that field. His progress ends there. He gets so engrossed in the ego that he can't see right or wrong. He gets caught in the web of his own ego.

One who does the ego, his destruction is certain. He is burnt to ashes in the fire of the ego he has planted. If a person is excellent in any field, then he should always think of performing more and better. If he becomes proud of his performance, then his progress stops.

The worst nature of the world is ego. Not all human beings should allow the ego to flourish in them. This destroys their intellect. An arrogant person sees nothing but himself. He only cares about himself and becomes selfish. He doesn't care about doing good to anyone. An arrogant person only seeks his own advantage.

An arrogant person hurts his loved ones because of his egoistic nature. Being blinded by the intoxication of ego, he insults anyone. He hurts everyone emotionally and throws himself into the darkness of his ego. He goes so far in the path of the ego that he cannot come back.

If a person has talent, qualities and is financially beautiful and prosperous, then he should feel good. He shouldn't be proud. The ego does not allow a person to move forward. His progress comes to a halt and after that he starts praising himself. We should not allow the feeling of ego to flourish in us. If a person wants to lead a happy life, he has to give up the ego.

An arrogant person does not respect his elders. He thinks that he knows everything about life; no one else can match him. This thought settles inside him, and in the coming life, a mountain of sorrow breaks down. One should always walk with positive thinking in life and stay away from feelings like ego.

CONCLUSION

An arrogant person forgets that there can be someone better and better than him. He does not want to believe that there can be someone better than him. An arrogant person remains trapped in his ego. If we are successful in life, it should be taken as a blessing and encouragement and not arrogance. One should be happy and satisfied in whatever he gets; he should not be arrogant at all.

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ANGER- A CURSE

 

Anger is an emotion of the human mind, which is often not considered good. When a person is angry, many physical symptoms appear during that time, such as increased heart rate and blood pressure; fear is usually considered the parent of anger. When humans try to control fear, it manifests itself in the form of anger.

Anger is also called a sign of cowardice, and it is also considered very harmful to health. Those who lack patience and courage in various situations get angry. The power of thinking and understanding of an angry person becomes zero. His respect among society and friends falls.

There is a need to increase your patience by controlling stress at the home, office, or any area of ​​life. Usually, it is natural to feel angry when someone wants to take credit for your work or contribution by dwarfing it. But it needs to be managed or controlled before it exceeds a normal level.

To control anger, it is essential to understand what causes it. By strengthening the quality of patience in our nature, we can control anger.

As mentioned earlier, where there is a lack of patience, anger resides there. Therefore, if you try to be patient in every situation in your nature, then you can easily control anger. In the initial state of anger, take some deep breaths and release or drink some water, then you can stop your anger in that situation. Get full sleep at night. Due to sleep disturbance or less sleep, irritability often starts increasing in nature and we start getting angry over small things.

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Gender Equality

 

We don’t realize that harassment can happen to anyone despite age, gender identity, religion, and attitude. The attention on harassment towards men is not as much attention shown towards women.

 

Whenever we talk about sexual assault, the only thought that comes to our mind is that it only happens to a woman. But in today’s era, we should not forget the fact that sexual assault can happen to other genders too. When we compare the amount of information available on the internet, we will find that most of the information on this topic is related to sexual assault of women. This is because it is difficult to gather information on the experiences of men who have faced sexual assault at some point in their lives. There could only be one possible reason for this lack of information and that is that the world has still not accepted that something like this can happen to men too and so, men don’t come out and speak up against such things due to the fear of facing societal backlash.

 

Recently men's rights activists scored a significant victory in India when the Supreme Court essentially identified them as the victims in domestic violence cases. The judges weren't making the law gender-neutral, however. They stated that Indian women were filing inaccurate claims of domestic violence.

If using the rights given by the Indian constitution for threatening somebody and still being safe is a women's right, then the woman doesn’t deserve these laws? Women's rights are given for protection, and these days, women are using it as a shield to make the victim sound like their culprit.

 

This assumed belief leads to disappointments that courts are places where innocents get harassed, so the only way to get justice is to harass the opponents. That harassment will force them to come to the bargaining table and close the cases.

 

The only way to stop false cases is to work towards rigorous prosecution of all false claims and false pieces of evidence, including the wrong investigation by police.

 

The time has come to recognize their problem as a social and public health issue and develop appropriate strategies and interventions. They are no longer more assertive than women. They need help in crisis and family violence: Particularly violence by a spouse is a crisis. Male victims of violence can be saved/helped through appropriate intervention such as recognizing violence against men by women as a public health issue, helpline for the male victims of violence, education, awareness, and legal safeguards.

 

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