FAMILY- Where Life Begins & Love Never Ends...

 

Family plays a significant role in human life. Every man is incomplete without the family.  A family is like a tree; there are many stems in the tree. Same as a man's life, there are so many relations in a family- such as his parents, his wife, and his children live together.

The ties between family members also need to be strengthened to keep families strong to take this forward. Each member of the family is unique and has its own personality. The interaction of each of them with other family members is unique. Nevertheless, the conversation needs to be nurtured and strengthened by the family members or the bond between them, or else it will fall apart.

No matter what form family takes for you, one thing is sure – family shapes us. Our family is our first introduction to the world. This is also our first conversation with this. We learn the most basic and most important social skills from our family. Apart from this, we also fulfill our emotional needs through them.

Humans are social animals, which means we can't lead a completely solitary life. Modern life is difficult and stressful. If you have a support system in place, it becomes much easier to handle. That support system is your family.

The strength of family relationships inspires members to appreciate each other. After love, it can be the most sought after in a human being. Everyone feels the need to be appreciated; It helps us feel worthwhile and boosts our confidence. Strong family bonds mean that when a family member appreciates you, it boosts your self-esteem and, in turn, makes it easier for you to express your appreciation.

Conclusion:

          Strong relationships between family members are essential to keep a family together. Without good relationships, a family breaks up very quickly, and in doing so, the family members are at different levels. Many family units break down, and the fabric of society is torn apart. In other words, strong family ties are the elemental glue that holds society together.

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EGO: A harassment style of hurt to others

 

The ego is the biggest enemy of man. Ego is not the trend of today, but this tendency in humans has been old for many years. Since time immemorial, many people have been arrogantly proud of their appearance, color, rule, and status, home, victory, etc. But this ego did not last long. The faster the speed of the ego, the quicker is the downfall of that person. Arrogance is when a person feels that there is no one better than him in this world. When he thinks of this, he will surely destroy himself. Because of which he is arrogant, he is not able to progress in that field. His progress ends there. He gets so engrossed in the ego that he can't see right or wrong. He gets caught in the web of his own ego.

One who does the ego, his destruction is certain. He is burnt to ashes in the fire of the ego he has planted. If a person is excellent in any field, then he should always think of performing more and better. If he becomes proud of his performance, then his progress stops.

The worst nature of the world is ego. Not all human beings should allow the ego to flourish in them. This destroys their intellect. An arrogant person sees nothing but himself. He only cares about himself and becomes selfish. He doesn't care about doing good to anyone. An arrogant person only seeks his own advantage.

An arrogant person hurts his loved ones because of his egoistic nature. Being blinded by the intoxication of ego, he insults anyone. He hurts everyone emotionally and throws himself into the darkness of his ego. He goes so far in the path of the ego that he cannot come back.

If a person has talent, qualities and is financially beautiful and prosperous, then he should feel good. He shouldn't be proud. The ego does not allow a person to move forward. His progress comes to a halt and after that he starts praising himself. We should not allow the feeling of ego to flourish in us. If a person wants to lead a happy life, he has to give up the ego.

An arrogant person does not respect his elders. He thinks that he knows everything about life; no one else can match him. This thought settles inside him, and in the coming life, a mountain of sorrow breaks down. One should always walk with positive thinking in life and stay away from feelings like ego.

CONCLUSION

An arrogant person forgets that there can be someone better and better than him. He does not want to believe that there can be someone better than him. An arrogant person remains trapped in his ego. If we are successful in life, it should be taken as a blessing and encouragement and not arrogance. One should be happy and satisfied in whatever he gets; he should not be arrogant at all.

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ANGER- A CURSE

 

Anger is an emotion of the human mind, which is often not considered good. When a person is angry, many physical symptoms appear during that time, such as increased heart rate and blood pressure; fear is usually considered the parent of anger. When humans try to control fear, it manifests itself in the form of anger.

Anger is also called a sign of cowardice, and it is also considered very harmful to health. Those who lack patience and courage in various situations get angry. The power of thinking and understanding of an angry person becomes zero. His respect among society and friends falls.

There is a need to increase your patience by controlling stress at the home, office, or any area of ​​life. Usually, it is natural to feel angry when someone wants to take credit for your work or contribution by dwarfing it. But it needs to be managed or controlled before it exceeds a normal level.

To control anger, it is essential to understand what causes it. By strengthening the quality of patience in our nature, we can control anger.

As mentioned earlier, where there is a lack of patience, anger resides there. Therefore, if you try to be patient in every situation in your nature, then you can easily control anger. In the initial state of anger, take some deep breaths and release or drink some water, then you can stop your anger in that situation. Get full sleep at night. Due to sleep disturbance or less sleep, irritability often starts increasing in nature and we start getting angry over small things.

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Gender Equality

 

We don’t realize that harassment can happen to anyone despite age, gender identity, religion, and attitude. The attention on harassment towards men is not as much attention shown towards women.

 

Whenever we talk about sexual assault, the only thought that comes to our mind is that it only happens to a woman. But in today’s era, we should not forget the fact that sexual assault can happen to other genders too. When we compare the amount of information available on the internet, we will find that most of the information on this topic is related to sexual assault of women. This is because it is difficult to gather information on the experiences of men who have faced sexual assault at some point in their lives. There could only be one possible reason for this lack of information and that is that the world has still not accepted that something like this can happen to men too and so, men don’t come out and speak up against such things due to the fear of facing societal backlash.

 

Recently men's rights activists scored a significant victory in India when the Supreme Court essentially identified them as the victims in domestic violence cases. The judges weren't making the law gender-neutral, however. They stated that Indian women were filing inaccurate claims of domestic violence.

If using the rights given by the Indian constitution for threatening somebody and still being safe is a women's right, then the woman doesn’t deserve these laws? Women's rights are given for protection, and these days, women are using it as a shield to make the victim sound like their culprit.

 

This assumed belief leads to disappointments that courts are places where innocents get harassed, so the only way to get justice is to harass the opponents. That harassment will force them to come to the bargaining table and close the cases.

 

The only way to stop false cases is to work towards rigorous prosecution of all false claims and false pieces of evidence, including the wrong investigation by police.

 

The time has come to recognize their problem as a social and public health issue and develop appropriate strategies and interventions. They are no longer more assertive than women. They need help in crisis and family violence: Particularly violence by a spouse is a crisis. Male victims of violence can be saved/helped through appropriate intervention such as recognizing violence against men by women as a public health issue, helpline for the male victims of violence, education, awareness, and legal safeguards.

 

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KNOWLEDGE (A POTENTIAL POWER)

Knowledge-based learning broadly emphasizes practical knowledge-based teaching as it creates a strong foundation for future learning. It provides a stock full of valuable facts and a set of flexible skills.

An educated and knowledgeable person can make intelligent decisions to overcome a complex problem based on his day-to-day understanding. Knowledge is superior to muscle power. Power is the ability to act and function effectively.

Earlier, man used to lead a nomadic life at the mercy of nature. He wandered in search of food and shelter and protected himself from wild animals and other dangers. Soon man started observing the nature and events happening around him and started gaining knowledge. He discovered fire and its uses. They also began making tools for hunting purposes and developed their hunting skills.

The man began to develop and discover natural phenomena with his power of knowledge. He started using nature for his benefit. Knowledge made his life comfortable, and he started living a more settled life by building huts for shelter.

Today man has developed limits. He uses his knowledge to dominate others. With knowledge, man has attained all the pastimes and comforts in life. Knowledge gave him strength physically. Man has now educated and cultivated himself.

He has made significant progress in the field of science and technology. He is the most powerful creature on earth and dominates nature and other physically less strong species with his mental strength and ability.

Knowledge is helpful in every aspect of life. The more knowledge we have, the more power we have. It is essential for our personal and professional development and motivates us to achieve success in life. It is the unique trait that drives us to lead a good and humble life.

Secondly, knowledge also keeps peace in the society by keeping people away from the fights and other social evils.

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Time is the wisest counselor of all

 

Time is priceless to all; Time is free for all; however, no one can buy or sell it. The person who loses time can never get it back.

If we don't take food on time nor take our medicines on time, then the time can destroy our health. Time is a river, which flows continuously and never comes back. Some people value their money over time; however, the truth is that nothing is more precious than time. It is time, which gives us wealth, prosperity, and joy.

We must learn regularity, consistency, and commitment from time to time. It runs continuously without stopping. We must walk step by step to achieve real success in life.

If we want to do something better in life, proper commitment, dedication, and full utilization of time are essential. If we waste time, time will ruin us and our lives." We must understand the value of time and go with it because time doesn't stop for anyone.

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FORGIVENESS

 

Behavior, feeling, and character have a significant meaning in human life. Forgiveness is considered the ultimate religion in life. Apologizing is the word that show utmost simplicity and humility.

Human Being considered being the best among all living beings. The reason for the superiority of a human being is his own qualities and deeds, due to which he is called great. Probably, when God must have created man, then one thing must have been made with him; that is a mistake.

It is often said that human beings are the puppet of mistakes; we are human, so we can make mistakes, but we also have the intelligence and discretion to test and understand our mistakes. Sometimes a mistake is made even in the unknown, and sometimes a mistake is made by being careless.

When a man contemplates after his mistake, he finds that he should not have done so, but the mistake made once cannot be rectified, but it can be learned that it should not be repeated in the future.

It is the identity of a person of great character that he apologizes as soon as he realizes the mistake or forgives him if he has made a mistake from someone else. Whether it is friendship or a relationship with relatives, only those relationships can be played well, who do not hesitate to apologize and are not stingy in forgiving.

As human beings, we should accept that mistake is a human nature that can happen at any time from oneself or outsider. Even we can make mistakes again and again. Therefore, instead of taking someone's mistake to heart, it is great to forgive by showing a big heart.

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